I get questions and comments from nonprofit professionals all the time, and not just from nonprofit professionals. A friend in the tech industry called recently and we had a great heart-to-heart talk about stuff she’s going through. A Navy friend and I had a...
Frame of Mind
The Action Question
What would you do if you knew you would succeed? What would you do if you knew you would not fail? What one thing would you like to achieve in the final months of 2022? It might be something personal, like lose 20 pounds. It might be something about a...
How Self-Awareness Can Help You Lead
I had a great coaching call recently with one of my coaching clients. At one point in our discussion, she said that she felt like she had a real breakthrough. She noticed that when her thoughts about a situation at work were leading her in a certain direction,...
Transform Yourself
I get it. You’re a skilled professional, but life is busy. Kids, parents, spouses, partners, volunteer duties, lawn mowing, kids’ sports, vacation, laundry. Life is hectic for all of us. But what I see happening is that we reach a certain level of success and we...
What Got You Here Won’t Get You There
You’ve achieved a lot during Covid and built a good team. You’re a good leader. You have a great deal to be proud of and big goals to reach this year. But you know to continue to achieve, you will have to continue to grow and evolve yourself. You need to examine...
Carrying a Heavy Burden
I attended the meeting of a professional association recently and talked with an attorney I’ve known for about 10 years. It was my first time to see him since COVID began. Since March 2020, 75 people close to him have died. One per week for a year and a half....
The Power of You
You got into your field because you wanted to make a difference, because your work had meaning. But along the way, you’ve lost some of your spark. Your job can be draining. I understand that. Over time, your imperfections have been revealed. But that’s OK....
Your Wishes and Dreams as a Leader
There are many talented nonprofit professionals in the Hampton Roads community. I’ve worked with many of them in my various roles as staff, board member, consultant, and coach. I often hear their frustrations and dreams. If you’re ready to envision a different and better future, I can help you achieve it.
Change Your Story: 5 Simple Steps
I’m a military spouse, and I’ve been that since the day I married my husband, who served 23 years in the Navy. It was a great career for him and took us to several cities in the United States and even to Naples, Italy. But that’s the story I tell now. At the time we...
Where Would We Be Without Failure?
A good friend and successful, high-ranking nonprofit leader recently said to me, “where would we be without failure?” Our failures are gifts if we are willing to see them as such. We learn a lot more from our failures than from our successes. Don’t believe...