Despite long records of professional and personal achievements, several of my coaching clients feel like they aren’t enough. These high-achieving professionals often struggle with imposter syndrome, or feeling like they don’t belong in the positions they’re in. People...
Personal Development
Doors Close, Doors Open
I know at least four talented, smart nonprofit professionals in my community who lost their job during the past two years. That’s a difficult thing to endure. Life is continually changing and evolving. Sometimes things end. We lose something important; we get fired;...
The Power of Positive Thinking About Other People
Has someone ever told you to “just think positive”? Have you told yourself that? I’m not a fan of that expression. Frankly, a lot of negative things happen in this world, and we must acknowledge that without glossing over it with a veneer of positivity. But one thing...
How to Find Evidence to Change Your Limiting Beliefs
Have you ever had a negative thought about someone at work, perhaps your boss or the board of directors? Maybe you’ve been frustrated while working with them. Almost all of us could say that we’ve been in that position. The problem is that most of us are busy living...
Who is Steering Your Ship?
Autonomy and resilience are important parts of good leadership and self-awareness. Every day, we encounter things that impact us, events that are controllable, and others that are uncontrollable. By becoming aware of our strengths and weaknesses, we can evaluate these...
Leadership Coaching: A Spa for Your Mind and Soul
You don’t need a coach to hold you accountable while you work toward your goals. The value of leadership coaching lies elsewhere: helping you to examine your thoughts and beliefs that lead to your actions and results. Working with a coach helped me so much that I...
Live a Life of Meaning and Purpose
My father, Ed, passed away recently. In addition to all the events and services that surrounded his death, I’ve had the opportunity to reflect on his life and the impact he made on his little corner of the world. I think very few people, at the end of their lives,...
Are Your Thoughts Holding You Back?
In a recent conversation with one of my coaching clients, we talked about those little negative voices that pop in our heads from time to time. We’re all human, and we may occasionally be affected by them. Do you listen? Do you believe those thoughts? These are...
The Client Who Doubted Herself
I recently worked with an amazing coaching client, who doubted her skills despite a long record of achievements and promotions. Her teams were successful. Her projects achieved and even exceeded their goals. And yet, she doubted her skills. She felt that she...
The Power of Goal Visualization
Here we are in winter 2022. You have the entire year ahead of you. What do you want to do? It could be achieving a professional or a personal goal, like earning your Certified Fund-Raising Executive (CFRE) certification, or getting more exercise and running a...